All my weight gets distributed to those areas. So when I lost the weight I looked good , but I just wasn’t as curvy. I had to make a decision after the second weight loss which was continue to eat only 1000 calories a day or just stop worrying about my weight so much.
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My horizons are wider than most, I just know what I’m physically attracted to. I can control who I talk to, I can’t control who I get boners for. You trying to shame me into it doesn’t change that.
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And yes, generally all Males of a healthy weight, who look okay, and are fit that do not have fetishes will not go for heavy set women. It’s how our minds are wired to be, if you are not attractive to the general image- healthy weight, good physical features and a smile on your face, we are designed to look elsewhere for it. Sex is fun with hot chicks, not even gonna happen with fatties. I don’t agree with all the nasty comments about it.
Look we all have a right to different interest, the world works better that way. And you have every right to date who you like. So as you said “be honest” I will, I find obese women attractive and I find fat women who like to eat and be lazy charming. Looks https://datingrated.com/love-ru-review/ don’t matter after a certain age is a ridiculous statement and just ANOTHER asinine excuse for ordering the stuffed baked potato with extra cheese and butter. You keep putting that type of food(?) in anyone’s body and the results are always unhealthy.
So we can tend to be a little leery when a guy professes interest. It makes you sound like all you care about is our bodies, that’s the most important part to you. Mentioning this first because it’s SUPER important, and it’s the first thing guys tend to mess up on. If everyone reading this only gave $12, we could raise enough money for the entire year in just one day. Every year, we reach over 6.5 million people around the world with our intersectional feminist articles and webinars.
These type of comments are what is wrong with the world today and it’s been men who have lead us this far. We do not need men like this in today’s society, these type of men are what has made history. Let’s keep them there & not give much thought into their ridiculous comments. @GirlwithQuestionsSettling for what? They may be settling physically , but what about mentally? Is a short skinny guy settling or is only a tall skinny guy settling?
You guys say we have to be tall, handsome, not fat, nice, not cheat, have money to support you material greed, and the list goes fucking on. All we say is don’t treat us like shit and don’t be fat. The moment someone says they are under 5 foot you bitches run away but the moment we say we don’t like women over 200 pounds you guys get offended to no end. I don’t hope you burn but I do hope your way of thinking and responding with immature comments changes.
You don’t deserve to have a fat girlfriend. Just because a woman is plus-sized doesn’t mean she isn’t taking care of herself. Body structure cannot be settled with just dieting.
It is up to YOU to do the work and make the effort to make the change. Don’t play the victim and blame others for ANY issues in your life….,.,,,,,Make the change and be in charge of your life. We are not talking about some lovely curves here. We are talking about people who are 5 feet who weigh 250 to 300 pounds or more. We have become a society that pretends obseity can happen genetically.
As Shakespeare would observe, “me thinks thou protests too much”. If your unhappy with your body image than do something about it and stop pretending that it is ok or that you really believe it is ok. The fundamental truth is that the vast majority of boys, girls, men and women find obesity unattractive at the very least. And while your are right that individuals should focus on and value the inner you… that in itself is no excuse for actively working to make the outer you less than desirable to look at.
I Was Shocked By How I Felt After Just 3 Days With Him. Rebecca Jane Stokes is a writer living in Brooklyn, New York with her cat, Batman. Her work focuses on relationships, pop culture, and news.